Sometimes I am out in public or watching him play with other kids and I realize that he does not need any interception on my part! There was a time when I didn't feel like I could take him out in public or especially around other kids because it was just too much darn work, and quite embarrassing too. He was a biter, and a hitter, and very physical, since about day one! ( I remember a specific experience when he was about 8 months and he crawled over and was mauling one of the other babies.) He has always been so active too! Just running away from me whenever he got the chance.
Needless to say I have had my share of judgments tossed my way. It has been one of the hardest things I have had to deal with (even if the intentions were for good). People telling me that my child is bad, and I need to learn to control him. (when, trust me.... I was already well aware of that fact.) I know there were many that questioned if he would ever grow out of it, ( I had my moments). But, he has! He has come such a long way, and I am so proud of him.
I know there are many more future obstacles that we will need to learn to overcome, but I find myself just being so thankful for the many promptings that I have had to just be patient, and continue to love him, and calmly be consistent. I have such a testimony that the Lord really will help parents and give us specific knowledge that pertains to our children.
Through helping and encouraging my children to grow, I realize that I have learned to grow as well. I have learned to have more confidence in myself and to rely more on the Spirit for how I feel about myself, rather than relying on others. What a blessing that my kids and I can grow up together.
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amen. that is so true. i feel i have grown SO much in the last 4 years...right along with my kiddos.
He's not bad. He's just high energy and leads with a push or fast moving forward energy in whatever he does in life no? :) what a sweet heart. Love that little guy and its so rewarding to see them growing up and learning. :)
I enjoy watching your kids grow up through your blog too! They are adorable!! My baby Jack is turning into quite a physical boy...the hitting, occasional biting, jumping...you know!! So you gave me encouragement that he'll grow out of it too!!
By the way... I just checked my blog after I checked yours and saw your comment! I love that we were thinking about each other and missing each other at the same time!!
I know what you mean, my kids have definitely had their hard-to-control stages too (if you count their entire lives as a stage, anyway :P). I do so love watching them grow up and become more independent, though :)
that was just a beautiful account of a motherhood experience. The Lord gave us our children for reason and we need to enjoy them and rely on the Lord for guidance. Thanks for that
You really inspire me. I just love you. Can we facetime again? I LOVED that!
Oh you are so wise, and I totally believe that these experiences can only be had as a parent. This is where you appreciate the good and the not so good (yet!) We think of you guys often and hope all is well! :)
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